Creative Disobedience: The Art of Being a Wiseass

By Laura Antoniou Mention SAMs or brats in the scene, and you’ll get either glee or groans, depending on your tolerance for antagonistic scenes and your level of formal dominance & submission. But there is a creative challenge to being just disobedient enough to entertain, divert, and involve a top in playful reactions ranging from a laugh to lighthearted punishment. […]

November 1, 2016 at 12:32 pm 0 comments

The Way of It: Establishing and Maintaining Protocol Within Relationships

By Laura Antoniou “What’s the number one reason given for dissatisfaction in an ongoing formal SM relationship?” asks Laura. “Lack of consistency from the top. What’s one tool in a top’s mental toy bag to keep this from happening? Establishing and maintaining a protocol of behavior.” In her humorous, but deeply insightful discussion, Laura gives an introduction and personal views […]

November 1, 2016 at 12:31 pm 0 comments

That Ain’t Necessarily So – Lies, Exaggerations & Silly Shit You Keep Hearing in the Scene

By Laura Antoniou A true dominant will never bottom. We’re all safe, sane and consensual. Kinky people are smarter & more creative. Safewords are necessary. Verbs are nouns. There are no rules. There are rules. How many times have you heard people state, with authority and assurance, something that sounds absolute and yet maybe a little fishy? How many times […]

November 1, 2016 at 12:27 pm 0 comments

Laura Antoniou

Laura Antoniou

Laura Antoniou is best known for her Marketplace series of BDSM erotica, the first of which was published over 20 years ago. The long awaited 6th book, The Inheritor, was released in 2015 after a successful Kickstarter campaign funded a limited leatherbound edition.  She has also lectured, ranted, read and presented on kinky sex at over 100 events worldwide. Her novel, The Killer Wore Leather, a comedy […]

July 8, 2016 at 3:01 pm 0 comments